"A woman and a man, if their
mutual passion depends merely on
pleasure or self-interest, will be tied to each other just as long as
they remain a source of pleasure or profit for each other. The moment this
comes to an end, the real reason for their passion will also end." -
We have been conditioned to ache for soul
Our strangest cultural ideal:
ultimate fulfillment as an
individual happens lost in the bliss
of the neural reward of sexual
The idealization of sex as a force for
personal liberation and self
fulfillment would have struck the Greeks,
icons of sexual
liberation as ludicrous.
Greeks, Eros was a powerful force of
nature, volatile and
life to continue but prone to sudden uncontrollable excess.
invent a repertoire of images to communicate
the violence of war all expressed
the rationality destroying power of
Eros is the
conflagration that burns
Troy leaving its plains strewn with
corpses, due to the illicit passion of
Paris and Hellen.
imagery of Eros, the Greek Cupid, has been emptied of its sinister
connotations and signifing instead sexual sentimentalism.
understood that cultural controls
were necessary both to limit the force
of sex and to exploit
its imaginative creative energy.
Sexual taboos, the institution of
marriage, emotions like guilt and
reason itself, all were devices for
The Marquis de Sade and
Leopold von Sacher-Masoch leave
us models of the results of liberating Eros from social
After the French
Revolution introduced the concept of sexual "freedom"
repressive political regimes
began to exhibit hostility toward
sexual licentiousness -
repression George Orwell
identified as totalitarianism.
In this new 'First World' of
the base animal instincts and
unnatural desires are glorified as life
sustaining and fulfilling.
international social cultural
psyche sex has been
Attempting to excise
the transcendental core of
union between two unique discrete beings of this First World is the goal of
is diminished and debased by commoditization.
For this reason sex has
enormous subversive potential.
The sacred dimension of sex
involves the dissolution of the
pleasure alone cannot satiate the spirits desire for
awaits us when we throw off separations shackles.
Radical feminists who meticulously catalog
the depredations of heterosexual Eros are silent about the darker side of
Sentimental rhetoric blinds us to
poison dripping from the arrows of Eros.
Predators feed off liberated sexuality
as liberated sexuality sells product.
People easily confuse confuse
sexual passion with compassion.
Passion based solely in pleasure
in another is not compassion at all.
dissociation suggests rational mechanisms of mate choice as no single human
decision is more important than the choice of a mate.
Men and women have always depended on
each other for survival.
While rationality sets a minimum threshold
on who qualifies as a mate, rationality profoundly fails to
predict the final choice.
fired desire is the human emotion that bonds men to women.
blind passion - emotional dependency
through delusional idealization evolve to solve a problem better
solved by cool rationality?
Suicides based on romantic
passion have occurred in all cultures.
Unrequited romantic passion
may consume a person.
Parental objections and
cultural chasms create
experiences unrequited romantic passion as a young
Bonds forged with romantic
passion require protection.
To understand sexual passion look at
To produce a single child, women bear the burden and
pleasure of nine months of
pregnancy - an obligatory parental investment men cannot share.
produce a child men need only devote a few hours - or a few minutes.
Over time the strategy of casual mating proved to be more
reproductively successful for men than for women.
An ancestral woman,
even one having sex with multiple partners in the course of a single year will
still produce only a single child.
Men therefore evolved a desire for
sex with a variety of women.
Evolutionary reasons for the desire for
sexual variety suggest universality.
realities provide compelling
First, the existence of
Male jealousy is an
evolutionary biological response to a loss of loyalty.
known in all cultures, including tribal societies, pointing to
the universal prevalence of infidelity.
Prevalence rates vary from
culture to culture (high in Sweden and low in China), but infidelity occurs
Sexual infidelity causes divorce worldwide more than any
other marital violation, being closely rivaled only by the
infertility of the
No Evidence for Sperm Wars
Women choose healthy sexual
Women benefit from multiple
sexual partners in countless ways.
Women who have sex with different
men produce more genetically diverse children, providing a "hedge" against
Some ancestral women purchased mate insurance, a
backup replacement in the event that something happened to her regular partner.
Women are five times more likely to experience sexual desire when they
are ovulating than when they are not.
Women tend to time their sexual
liaisons to coincide with the peak of their sexual desire, when they are
most likely to
Sex with husbands is most likely to occur when women were
not ovulating, a strategy aimed at keeping a man rather than conceiving with
Women experience sexual desire when they are ovulating, and if
they have an extra martial sexual liaison partner, have urges to have sex with
Spouses experience a signal detection problem.
detection problem is not merely about picking up accurate signals in the face
of an uncertain and ambiguous welter of information.
It is also about
making correct inferences about the
cause of the signal.
As sexual infidelity is invariably secret,
signals emited are intentionally muted.
European psychiatrist counseled many
couples referred to him in which one of the husband experienced "morbid jealousy."
Most of his
cases were husbands who he felt had delusions their wives were sexually
unfaithful, and these
delusions destroyed the fabric of trust.
As he believed that morbid
jealousy was a psychiatric illness
that could not be cured, his most common recommendation was that the couples
Many couples followed his recommendations.
As he was
keenly interested in the subsequent fate of his
patients, he routinely contacted them after a number of months had passed.
He discovered that many of the wives had subsequently become sexually
involved with the very men about whom their husbands had been jealous!
Some of the women actually married the objects of their husbands
The husbands were
subconsciously sensing signs
As the wives
proclaimed innocence and declared that their husbands
jealousy was irrational husbands were decieved - and so was the
Jealousy is a part of
human nature because of
the threat of sexual treachery.
Evolution has forged elaborate defenses to detect and fend off threat
All cultures develop
elaborate moral codes to reign in muderous passion.
Jealousy can be
emotional acid that corrodes marriages,
undermines self-esteem, triggers
battering, and leads to the ultimate
crime of murder.
Jealous men are more likely to
preserve valuable commitments
to their own children rather than squandering them on the children of their
As descendants of
a long line of men who acted
to ensure their paternity, modern men carry with them the dangerous passion
Jealousy can destroy previously harmonious relationships
and is not always a reaction to an infidelity that has already been discovered
but may be an anticipatory
response to intutive feelings of infidelity or lack of loyalty.
"Labeling jealousy as pathological simply because a
spouse has not yet strayed ignores the fact that jealousy can head off an
infidelity that might be lurking on the horizon of a relationship." -
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